How to Plan a Micro-Wedding in Denver
Big love. Smaller guest list. Way better vibes.
If you’ve found yourself whispering “I don’t think I want a big wedding…” you’re not alone. If you're thinking Denver might be the right place to keep things stylish, soulful, and intimate, you’re absolutely right.
Here at The Banshee House, we’ve seen the whole spectrum: full-out dance parties, family-only dinners, even backyard ceremonies that somehow turned into late-night jam sessions. But lately? The micro-wedding is having a moment.
Here’s our guide to planning a micro-wedding in Denver — without losing the magic, the meaning, or the fun.
First things first: What is a micro-wedding?
A micro-wedding usually has 20–50 guests, but don’t get caught up in the numbers. It’s not about the headcount. It’s about the feel.
It’s personal. It’s flexible. It’s budget-smart. It gives you permission to ditch what doesn’t serve you and focus on what you actually care about: a beautiful space, good food, your favorite people, and a celebration that feels like you.
And in Denver? You’ve got options.
Step 1: Choose the right kind of venue
Spoiler alert: You don’t need a ballroom.
What you do need is a space with personality, flexibility, and just enough structure to keep things flowing. Look for venues that have modular layouts, a mix of indoor/outdoor vibes, and bonus features (like lounges, hidden corners, or back patios) that encourage conversation and photos without needing a full-blown production team.
Here in RiNo, the River North Art District, venues are quirky and creative by default. At The Banshee House, we’re a converted printing press with layered charm — mirrored interiors, moody lighting, and an upstairs lounge that makes a perfect getting-ready space or private toast room.
Plus, we’re located on Larimer Street, so your guests can walk to bars, tacos, or murals after the main event. (And trust us, they will.)
Step 2: Make a guest list that actually feels good
Micro doesn’t mean “cut everyone you love.” It means build something intentional.
Start with who you know you want there — the people who show up for you in real life. Think less about obligation, more about joy. From there, build outward only if you feel like it. Some couples go full elopement with a dinner after. Some host 40 people for vows and cocktails. Others do a standing ceremony in the backyard and a food truck on the street.
All valid. All micro. All unforgettable.
Step 3: Skip the stress. Prioritize what matters.
Here’s the secret sauce: Micro-weddings let you spend smarter and create better moments.
When you’re not budgeting for 200 chairs and three plated entrees, you free up energy (and funds) for the good stuff:
📸 Hiring the photographer whose work makes you feel something
🌿 Bringing in your favorite florist, not the one who says yes to every wedding
🎵 Letting the music vibe with the space: a vinyl DJ, a friend on acoustic, a playlist with a real arc
🥂 Doing a signature cocktail that actually tastes like you
Want to bring your own vendors? Awesome. Need help finding the best one? We’ve got a rec.
Step 4: Use the neighborhood to your advantage
Denver has a ton of micro-wedding-friendly neighborhoods, but RiNo takes the cake.
Why?
Because this corner of the city feels alive. There’s texture and grit and surprise around every corner. You can get married inside an art gallery, take photos next to a mural, and toast with natural wine — all in one block.
If your guests want to hang after? They can. If you want to sneak away for portraits in golden hour light? You’re already in the right spot.
Want to see how it all comes together? Here’s our gallery.
Step 5: Remember you’re allowed to do it your way
The wedding industrial complex wants you to believe you need a drone, monogrammed everything, and eight months of spreadsheets. You don’t.
You need a space that feels like a hug. People who love you. And maybe a fog machine, if that’s your thing.
At The Banshee House, we’ve seen micro-weddings that felt like poetry. We’ve also seen ones that ended in dance-offs. All that matters is that it feels real. You don’t need permission. But in case you were waiting for a sign? This is it.
Recap: Micro-Wedding Planning in Denver
✅ Venue: Look for flexible, creative spaces (like ours 😉)
✅ Guest list: Make it intentional, not obligatory
✅ Budget: Spend where it feels good: food, photos, florals
✅ Neighborhood: Choose walkable, vibey areas like RiNo
✅ Rules: Yours to make (or break)
Let’s plan something you’ll remember
If you’re planning a micro-wedding in Denver and want a space with just the right amount of magic, we’d love to have you.
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